Are You Ready for Marriage? Love or Logic?

Marriage is not just a relationship built with love; it is a journey that progresses with harmony, understanding and consciousness. You may think that you are ready for marriage. However, beyond an emotional bond, it is quite normal to have question marks in your mind on this journey as a couple. So how do you know that you are ready for marriage?

You can get rid of the question marks by finding the real reason behind your decision to get married.

·         Social Pressures: If you think that you have made this decision because of the pressure from your family and people around you to get married, you should re-evaluate this decision. Marriage is a long journey between couples. Other environmental factors should not direct this relationship.

·         Fear of Time and Age: Decisions made with the thought of "marriage is missing" because of your age are quite wrong and a step taken for an unhappy marriage. The right person is more important for marriage, not the right age.

·         Compatibility According to External Appearances: Choosing to get married just to appear as a "harmonious and beautiful couple" from the outside is a huge mistake that will lead to misery and disappointment in the future.

Are You Ready For Marriage? Love Or Logic?

Real questions you should ask yourself!

·         Do I share the same social life, happiness, excitement, etc. with my partner?

·         How do we end our arguments? Is the problem solved or do we experience the same problem again?

·         Can I share my unhappy moments, traumas or emotional burdens?

Getting Ready for Marriage is a Process

The marriage journey is different for every couple. Every marriage can continue happily as a result of the decisions made, steps taken, analyzes, desires and changes.  Considering the fear of marriage etc., postponing the decision to get married and giving the relationship a little more time is a very correct and logical decision. In this process, you can strengthen the bond between you and your partner. 

You can analyze your relationship by going to a couples therapy.