A Marriage Story | Duygu & Turan
HOW DID YOU MEET YOUR WIFE?
Turan is a friend of a friend of mine from high school. I saw him for the first time with that friend of mine when we had just moved to Kayseri. I can't remember any details; For some reason, I remember everything about that moment. What was he wearing, where was he sitting, how was he looking, etc... That day, I had a feeling that I would marry such a man, it was just a momentary feeling.
I haven't seen it for years since that encounter. Sometimes my friend would say that we were very suitable for each other, I didn't pay much attention to it. One day, while he was out with my friend, we met and met Turan. It may seem like something out of a novel, but; "That's it ! “It was the moment we said, that moment. That's how we started meeting and then it went on well…
HOW DID YOU MAKE THE DECISION OF MARRIAGE ?
I don't know how or when we made this decision. I've never thought about whether I should marry Turan, how it aroused confidence. From the first meeting, he always talked to me about the future. In other words, we were not like two people trying to get to know each other, but like couples who had been seeing each other for years. We started seeing each other in early 2009, she always said she wanted to get married that summer. Since it was the first year of my master's degree, I had lessons and I convinced myself in the summer of 2010, although it was difficult. I think we made the decision in that first meeting, we informed each other later. Before I forget, Turan did not propose to me, he always said he wanted to get married, but I used to dream of a romantic proposal . This alone did not make my dream come true.
HAVE YOU MADE A PREVIOUS RESEARCH ON THE BRIDAL?
For example, have you looked for models in other stores? Every woman has a model in her mind, I always thought of a one-piece wedding dress that was not too puffy . I looked at wedding dress models by describing them in this way in other stores, I tried, but I never liked them. As if there was something missing. Then I realized that the wedding dress should be fluffy, it should be white...
HOW DID YOU DECIDE ON THE MODEL YOU PREFER TO WEAR ON THE WEDDING DAY?
Which features of the wedding dress you chose appealed to you more than others?
When I came to DreamON, I understood why I didn't like it until now. Everyone was so cordial and sincere that I decided to buy from DreamON without looking at the models. As soon as I entered, they said to me, "You are the bride, you must be the happiest ". I described the wedding dress I was looking for. They brought a wedding dress model that was not fluffy in accordance with the recipe, and they brought a few wedding dresses that were not related to my recipe, thinking that it would suit me. I immediately eliminated the model that fits my description. I tried other models, listening to the recommendations of my friends and employees. We still laugh with my friends, I thought whatever I wore would look good. The DreamON team decorated me with bridal accessories such as veils and tiaras, according to the bridal gowns I tried. It was so much fun that I went to DreamON many times to try on wedding dresses . I always dream of posing sitting on the floor when I wear a wedding dress. That's why I sat in front of the mirror with every wedding dress I wore. Even though I liked the models that didn't look good when sitting, I eliminated them. Actually, I decided on a model, but there were a few other models that I liked. I leave the final decision to my loved ones. I took my wife, mother, mother-in-law, siblings and finally wore the wedding gowns again. Everyone liked the wedding dress I liked and we bought it.
WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SAY TO COUPLES IN PREPARATION FOR MARRIAGE? DO YOU HAVE SUGGESTIONS OR RECOMMENDATIONS?
Marriage preparation is a difficult process. In this process, it is very important for families to be constructive and understanding. We didn't have any problems because our families got along well. But since it is a difficult event to combine two lives, I can say that families should take their opinions very seriously. It's best to try to be tolerant, as excitement and stress increase as the wedding approaches. They should stay away from all kinds of events and people that will stress them out and upset them. Let them try to think positively and enjoy the moment...